He works in HVAC and I work in an office. We both work long days. He usually gets home an hour before I do. Today, I came home and find that he is at his friend's house a few doors down and drinking (this happens a lot by the way, like, at least 5 days a week.)
This really irks me because he didn't call to see what plans we can make for the night or if he should start dinner, nothing.
Anyhow, when I first come home I am tired. He thinks that because I work in an office I don't have a right to be tired or want to relax a little after work. So, I call him and ask him what he is doing. He says "I am having a few beers and relaxing after work. Can you go online and pay my mortgages for me?" I said no., I am going to go have a few beers and relax after work and hung up on him. I called him back. He said I am treating him like sh**t. Really? Who is treating who like sh**t?
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