I don't know what to do. Everything I am writing is everything I have spoken to my significant other about countless number of times. I have several issues. My first issue is finances. I pay every bill in the house, mortgage, power, gas, cable, & phone, and daycare for 2 children, $1600 monthly leaving me to less than $100 at the end of the month. He pays the car insurance and grocery bill which totals to $360 a month, gas ($100 a month), he makes double my annual salary. I've talked to him about splitting the bills but he will not. He only states that he is home one week out of the month. So when I need money for little extras such as my hair, nails, dance lessons for our daughter, or swimming lessons for both kids, he tells me it's not his responsibilty. But, I take it out of his account anyway and hear his mouth about the withdrawal later. When my truck broke down, I had to find the money to get it fix by myself. I set up payments with the repair shop on a monthly basis, and he doesn't offer to help. Get this for my birthday he bought my a car on which he makes the $400 note; however, I can't drive it when he comes home(he travels w/job 3 weeks out of a month), or when he and I argue. Second issue, he doesn't touch me, hold me, caress me, or kiss me… And sex is about once a week one time a month! And I am a very attractive woman, 35 and at my sexual peak. I am very frustated, especially sexually. Third issue, I feel as if I can't depend on him as he's not there for me.
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