wear normal clothes no brand name stuff
  drive an old car
  pretend you live in an apartment or are renting
  act frugal but don't be cheap
  no fancy dinner dates or anything that seems expensive to other people
  
  woman ask what do you do for a living
  
  you say i do anything that makes money
  
  like what?
  
  oh right now I'm in construction
  
  when really you have a doctorate and are actually a new professor at the provinces top university you drive a BMW sports car and your a landlord of 3 houses in vancouver each currently valued at over a million each with no mortgage passed on to you by your father
  and you make a total income of just over 10k a month after tax
  
  you can tell her the truth after you've married her and you know for sure that she loves you and would marry you and be with you knowing your poor or broke and have nothing
  
  unfortunately this is the only way
  Added (1). in terms of the initial attraction I'll use my looks for that
  its more affective if i skip the first level of attraction and go straight to the 2nd level 
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