Need advice about mortgage underwriting?

We are closing on our house next Friday. Our loan is still in underwriting, which is making me crazy.
They just told us yesterday that my husband needs to confirm his year end bonuses are something he is guaranteed and now they are saying he can't use is freelance income because it's not our are tax returns, but they are there, we claim them every year.
Anyone else have problems like this when buying a house.
This process is making me a crazy woman.

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