It's quite a large sum of money for my terms, but not nearly large enough to save me for the rest of my life (think 2-3 years max of worry-free life)
Mom asks me to keep it in her account as she would use it for various things (pay mortgage / insurance, buy land, get rid of neighbours in shared house we own / buy it out, …)
I'm currently in uni, so money is tight, but I don't need THAT much money right now. I've been able to get through with monthly allowance and a side job, and this would mean I'd no longer need to ask for allowance.
But I fear that me keeping it would shatter my already fragile relationship with rest of family (sister, mom) - they said it would mean I no longer have any interest in them (and implied she would disinherit me)
Should I keep that money and risk getting disinherited (this would probably just be emotional loss for me as I don't rely my future on getting any property), or should I give it all to my mother's account and continue asking for monthly allowance to ket through college for 3+ years until I'm able to get by on my own, or should I come up with a third solution (keep something give rest / shared bank account accessible by both me and mom / something else?)
This question may sound weird, but I really don't want to make a rushed decision, and get as much advice as possible. My mother is a rash woman with often jerk reactions, but I know she loves me. I want to make a choice that would be reasonable for everyone.
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